PERSONAL STORY AND LIFE OF CHARLES E WHISNANT FAMILY . Life is growing and learning every day, every experience gives us new wisdom and insight into giving God the glory.
Saturday, February 28, 2009
AMERICA IS THE PLACE WE LIVE
Friday, February 27, 2009
QUESTIONS I ASK MY SELF PART FOUR
This series based on 11 Timothy 2:15
11 Timothy 2:15 “…who does not need to be ashamed…”
“Is there anything going on in your life privately that, if it became public, would disqualify you from ministry?”
We don’t need any more pastors/ministry leaders making horrible moral decisions! Seriously…we should be willing to take whatever steps necessary to guard ourselves!
One thing I know about God…He doesn’t play! Galatians 6:7 says He will not be mocked…and to the ministry leader that pretends all is well but has sin issues that he refuses to confess and repent of…bro, God doesn’t play games!
So…what steps are you taking to safeguard yourself? Some of mine are…
- I do not handle the money at Rivers of Joy Baptist Church
- I do not counsel women without my wife presence
- I will not ride alone with a woman in a car other than Charity or my children
- I will not have lunch or dinner (or breakfast) alone with a woman other than Charity or my daugher
- Basically I will not spend time alone with a woman other than my wife and daughter!
- Am I legalistic about this? YES!
- I keep my Computer where my wife can see me on line, and she can see the last 300 sites that i have being on.
I have friends that ask me whether or not I am handling my life and preaching and money and time responsibile
These are just a few of the things.
- I’ve learned that the person responsible for my personal integrity is me…no one else. And that I’ve got to realize where my greatest temptations are and then plan accordingly to not place myself in those areas.
There is TOO MUCH AT STAKE for me (and YOU) to fall!
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
SOME WISE COUNSEL GIVING FOR LIVING
Tonight's bible study was very good. Enjoyed the fellowship with the folks tonight.
A. "A GOOD NAME IS BETTER THAN PRECIOUS OINTMENT"
B. WHY THIS IS SO...
II. YOUR DEATHDAY IS BETTER THAN YOUR BIRTHDAY (7:1b)
A. "THE DAY OF DEATH THAN THE DAY OF ONE'S BIRTH"
B. HOW THIS IS SO...
Job 14:1; 3:1-3 and Jer 20:14-18
2. But for the righteous, the day of one's death is the beginning
of eternal bliss! a. - Isa 57:1-2 Php 1:21-22 Rev 14:13
III. A FUNERAL IS BETTER THAN A PARTY (7:2-6)
A. "BETTER TO GO TO THE HOUSE OF MOURNING THAN TO GO TO THE HOUSE
OF FEASTING"
2. Why? The Preacher tells us why...
a. "For that is the end of all men" cf. Heb 9:27
B. "SORROW IS BETTER THAN LAUGHTER"
cf. Hebrews 12:11
C. "IT IS BETTER TO HEAR THE REBUKE OF THE WISE THAN...TO HEAR THE
SONG OF FOOLS"
IV. THE END IS BETTER THAN THE BEGINNING (7:8)
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
RIVERS OF JOY BAPTIST CHURCH MINFORD OhioINSIDE
ACCOUNTABLITY TO THE TASK OF PASTOR
“Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, A WORKMAN…”
One of the biggest temptations for a leader is to become lazy and the begin to expect God to do what HE has clearly commanded the leader to do.
- It is my responsibility as a leader, and pastor to make sure I am prepared to preach God’s Word every Sunday, and Wednesday. Three messages on Sunday and one on Wednesday is a task.
- It is my responsibility as a leader to make sure that I am growing in my faith and in my leadership abilities. This is by reading the Word of God. Reading material that helps me process leadership.
- It is my responsibility as a leader to work hard, to put time, effort and energy into the things God has called me to lead.
One of the most dangerous things a leader can do is put their leadership on cruise control. God didn’t call us to cruise…He called us to create…and that ONLY comes through us being willing to roll up our sleeves and WORK HARD.
Monday, February 23, 2009
CHARLES AND CHARITY SITTING IN A TREE
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But Becky took this photo of us Sunday February 22, 2009 after we came home from church. And I believe this photo captures our love for each other. What you see, is what we have for each other, now for thirty nine years and counting.
When my head hits the pillow at night I’ve got to know that I have tried my best to honor HIM and HIS calling on my life…which IS NOT EASY in a world where everyone seems to have an opinion and a website!
BUT…focusing on them doesn’t allow me to focus on Him! (BTW…it isn’t helping you either!!!)
Paul said it best in Galatians 1:10 we have a choice…I have made mine and will not look back…there is way too much at stake!
#3 - Does God Approve?
“Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved…”
This kind of overlaps with the last question; however, I believe the conclusion is slightly different.
Whenever I am wrestling with a decision and I think I have came to a conclusion the final filter I run it through is, “Is this a good decision or a God decision? Does God approve of this?”
I have a philosophy…could be debated I guess…but I think that I am right! I am all about getting as many people around me as possible to help make a decision. The book of Proverbs speaks over and over again of not trying to make leadership decisions alone…
However…I believe there are certain times in a leaders life when God will reveal to him the right decision that needs to be made…and he, at least for a while, will feel all alone when it comes to his conviction.
Remember David in the cave? Saul is after him, wants to kill him…goes into a cave and David “just happens” to be in there? It looked like the right opportunity! His men were telling him to go for it– they even had a verse!
BUT…David knew that God would not approve of him killing Saul (even though Saul was in an incredibly vulnerable position!)
If I ever as a leader try to make everyone around the leadership table with me happy and ignore God in the process…that makes me a poor leader.
Now, before I move on from this let me clearly say that in the nine years NewSpring has existed there has been LESS than five times EVER that I have disagreed with my entire leadership team.
AND…each time that happens I don’t ever pull the authority card. A few times we have tabled the decision to seek the Lord more…and at least once I asked them to trust me because I really felt like I had heard from the Lord.
(If you are pulling the “God told me” card every week and never allowing the leaders at the table to speak…you’ll run off your best leaders!)
I’ve said it for the longest time–leadership is as easy as listening to God…and if we listen and obey–He approves. It is THAT simple!
Saturday, February 21, 2009
THE RIGHTEOUSNESS OF CHRIST IN YOU
GOOD MORNING, FOLKS. LET THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, THE EVERLASTING GOD, BE IN YOU, LET HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS THAT IS IN YOU BE THE FRUIT OF YOUR SPEECH TODAY. SHOW TO ALL THOSE WHOM YOU ARE WITH TODAY, THE FRUITS OF YOUR LIFE IS THAT OF THE RIGHTEOUSESS OF CHRIST, WHO IS OUR SAVIOR AND LORD.
Friday, February 20, 2009
THE QUESTIONS I TRY TO FOLLOW
This series based on Second Timothy 2:15 tells us this.
I am trying to ask myself six questions based on this verse…
The first three words are both demanding AND convicting…DO YOUR BEST! (God makes is VERY apparent about how He thinks about odds and ends in Malachi 1:6-14)
There are times as a church leader, pastor, teacher, elder, I am tempted to coast…to make the trouble-free decision instead of the right one…to get out of the meeting rather than deal with the problem…to let things slide rather than hurt someone’s feelings. Not often but there are those times who I would just rather say, “Let’s pray.”
BUT…as a Shepherd God has called me to honor Him by giving Him my absolute best…and that means going the extra mile in every single area of my life.
#2 - Am I More Concerned About God Or Others?
Scripture is very clear, “Do your best to give present yourself to God…”
When “the end” is here I will stand before God and will NOT answer as to… Eccl 7:1-6
- Whether or not I kept people contented.
- Whether or not I appeased the bloggers.
- Whether or not I preached sermons that people WANTED to hear.
I will answer for whether or not I was faithful to WHO He called me to be and WHAT He called me to do!
Craig Groeschel that says, “The quickest way to forget what God says about me is to become obsessed with what others say about me.”
SO TRUE!
When my head hits the pillow at night I’ve got to know that I have tried my best to honor HIM and HIS calling on my life…which IS NOT EASY in a world where everyone seems to have an opinion and a website!
.BUT…focusing on them doesn’t allow me to focus on Him! (BTW…it isn’t helping you either!!!)
Paul said it best in Galatians 1:10 we have a choice…I have made mine and will not look back…there is way too much at stake!
#3 AND 4 later...
Thursday, February 19, 2009
WHY MEMBERS ARE MEMBER LOCAL CHURCHES
THE MINISTRY OF THE LOCAL CHURCH
IT IS WITHIN THE CHURCH PARTICULAR THAT WE COMMIT OURSELVES TO INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP WITH FELLOW BELIEVERS AND SUBMIT OURSELVES TO ACCOUNTABILITY, DUTIES, AND RESPONSIBILITIES. IN THIS ASSEMBLY OUR CHRISTIAN CHARACTER IS SHAPED. IT IS THE CONTEXT IN WHICH OUR SPIRITUAL GIFTS ARE DEVELOPED AND EXERCISED. IT IS THE FAMILY WHOSE TIES CANNOT BE BROKEN. IT IS THE TRAINING CAMP THAT DISCIPLES AND EQUIPS BELIEVERS TO BE GOD’S PEOPLE AGAINST THE WORLD AND FOR THE WORLD.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
DALE EARNHARDT SR DIED IN 2001
Racing legend Dale Earnhardt died today in a crash during the Daytona 500. “The accident happened a half-mile from the finish of the NASCAR season-opener as Earnhardt’s newest driver, [Michael] Waltrip, and [Earnhardt’s] son Dale Earnhardt, Jr. were in front racing toward what should have been the most triumphant moment in the brief history of Dale Earnhardt Inc.,” reported The Frederick Post on February 19, 2001. Earnhardt was trying to place third when driver Sterling Martin bumped the back of his stock car. Earnhardt’s vehicle then fishtailed, cut across the track and hit Ken Schrader’s car. Both smashed into the concrete wall head-on at roughly 180 miles-per-hour before sliding back into the infield of the track. Earnhardt was cut out of his car and taken to Halifax Medical Center where he was pronounced dead due to head injuries.
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
NETWORKING WITH FRIENDS, FAMILY, FOLLOWERS, FOLKS.
While it is true you are being connected with us through the Internet, via the social/church networking as it is called, the purpose is two-fold at least.
ONE: It is great to have this almost instant communication with people literally all over the world in seconds. And now you can talk live with each other. Just amazing, isn't it?
THREE: If you so desire you can have a group of FaceBook "friends" read what you want which
- Gives me valuable connection to people from my past.
- Exposes a different audience to my blog posts (through Facebook Notes) and my tweets (through Facebook status updates Is more personal.)
- Gives me a connection with people.
- Gives me an outlet for writing. Writing gives me energy and renews my passion. Blogging gives me that outlet.
- Is a great journaling tool. I'm not a journal guy -- but I see and appreciate the value in journaling. I can look back at a few years of blogging and re-live some of my journey along the way.
- Is easy to archive. Pretty much anything I've ever blogged is easy to find and retrieve. All 910 posts, or articles.
- Helps me stay connected to the thoughts of my friends, my staff, my leaders, and my mentors. I get a glimpse into their hearts and minds when I read what they've been blogging.
- Quick. Today you can just about do anything in an email. Photo. Audio and Video.
- I like this method the best in that I can send one email to one person or a dozen.
- The Cloud Network is a web-based tool for churches who want to do ministry online. Churches are able to upload mp3’s, post events, create social networks, send emails to people or groups in their church, manage their music, stream audio, podcast, blog, post job classifieds, gather additional visitors using our online network and other valuable options.
- I was amazed at the number of networks that have the church connection. Your church family can be connected over the Internet with easy access. If they all had the High Speed Internent that would be wonderful.
Monday, February 16, 2009
THE DUTY OF EVERY PASTOR/TEACHER
OUR CHURCH IS ELDER/PASTORAL LED. THUS WE HAVE A PLURALITY OF PASTORS WHO WORK TO ACCOMPLISH THE OBJECTIVES THAT CHRIST HAS SET FORTH IN SCRIPTURE.
FROM THE TIME I ATTENDED THE SHEPHERD'S CONFERENCE IN 1982, 1990, etc. THE GOAL HAS BEEN TO TEACH, FEED, LEAD THE PEOPLE WHOM THE LORD ALLOWS ME TO BE THE UNDERSHEPHERD.
- to feed the flock (John 21:15-17)
- to proclaim the whole will of God ( Acts 20:27)
- to present everyone perfect in Christ (Colossians 1:28-29)
- to prepare God’s people for works of service (Ephesians 4:12)
- to equip God’s people to be fisher’s of men (2 Timothy 4:5)
- to keep watch over oneself until the task is complete (1 Timothy 4:16)
FOR ME TO LIVE IS CHRIST
Sunday, February 15, 2009
DIVINE SIDE AND THE HUMAN SIDE OF SALVATION
The following excerpt is from "The Father's Will," a sermon first published in 1873. We start with the text Spurgeon was preaching from:
"This is the Father's will which hath sent me, that of all which he hath given me I should lose nothing, but should raise it up again at the last day. And this is the will of him that sent me, that every one which seeth the Son, and believeth on him, may have everlasting life: and I will raise him up at the last day" (John 6:39-40).
The two phrases set forth the divine side of salvation and the human side of salvation.
You know, beloved friends, that the general custom is, with the various sects of Christians, to take up one part of the Bible and preach that part, and then it is the duty of all divines on that
side of the question not to preach anything but that. Or if they find a text that looks in rather a different direction, these gentlemen are expected to twist it round to suit their creed, it being supposed that only one set of truths can possibly be worth defending, it never having entered into the heads of some people that there can be two apparently irreconcilable truths which
nevertheless are equally valuable.
Think not that I come here to defend the human side of salvation at the expense of the divine; nor am I desirous to magnify the divine side of it at the expense of the human; rather would I beseech you to look at the two texts which are together before us, and to be prepared to receive both sets of truths. I think it a very dangerous thing to say that the truth lies between the
two extremes. It does not: the truth lies in the two, in the comprehension of both; not in taking a part from this and a part from that, toning down one and modulating the other, as is too much the custom, but in believing and giving full expression to everything that God reveals whether we can reconcile the things or not, opening our hearts as children open their understandings to their father's teaching, feeling that if the gospel were such that we could make it into a complete system, we might be quite sure it was not God's gospel, for any system that comes from God must be too grand for the human brain to grasp at one effort; and any path that he takes must extend too far beyond the line of our vision for us to make a nice little map of it, and mark it out in squares.
This world, you know, we can readily enough map. Go and get charts, and you shall find that men of understanding have indicated almost every rock in the sea, almost every hamlet on the land; but they cannot map out the heavens in that way, for albeit that you can buy the celestial atlas, yet as you are well enough aware there is not one in ten thousand of the stars that can possibly be put there; when they are resolved by the telescope they become altogether
innumerable, and so far exceed all count that it is impossible for us to reckon them up in order and say, that is the name of this, and this is the name of that. We must leave them: they are beyond us. There are deeps into which we cannot peer; even the strongest glass cannot show us much more than a mere corner of the starry worlds.
Thus too is it with the doctrines of the gospel: they are too bright for our weak eyes, too sublime for our finite minds to scan, save at a humble distance. Be it ours to take all we can of their solemn import, to believe them heartily, accept them gratefully, and then fall down before the Lord, and pour out our very souls in worshipping him.
MY MOM, WHO LOVES TO EAT
Second photo in the early evening when she was determined to make it back to the table, the exact spot where just earlier the death angel stood.
Saturday, February 14, 2009
OUR GANG HEART THUMPS IN 1937
Our Gang Hearts Are Thumps 1937
Uploaded by lilrascalman
The Little Rascals was still on in 1950's when I was a lad, and I watched them every day, if I could find a friend or neighbor who had a TV.
Friday, February 13, 2009
THE DARK SIDE OF LIFE SHOWN
The real me sitting at my desk at 4 a.m. Web cam does good.
Truth is the foundation of learning so we need to learn truth. John 18:36-38
NOTE THEN Ephesians 6:13-18
HOW DO WE SEE TRUTH?
Thursday, February 12, 2009
KEEPING UP WITH THE NEW GENERATION
I have finally joined FACEBOOK I beleive on Monday of this week.
COMPUTER MICROPHONE MONITER HOLSTER/LAPEL CLIP
- On Wednesday February 11, 2009 I bought a Cyber Acoustics computer microphone. ($8.45) And what is cool, I have the brains to figure this out. Googled Cyber and they gave me instruction how to turn on the Sound Recorder, which was already on my computer. The amazing coolness was, I could read and follow those instructions. Save the file and then go to GrowByLearning.com and put my very first recording on the opening page. And the recording will play auto when you are on the site, and you will only hear my voice. That is coolness.
- This morning as I was viewing FaceBook Ray Prichard link us over to this Awaken Generation a networking for those 18-24 age group. So I joined. I have not listen to anything yet. So I will later. Its free but you have to sign in.
IN FUTHER UPDATES I WILL REPORT.
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
SOCIAL NETWORKING OR BIBLICAL EVANGELISM BETTER
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Tuesday, February 10, 2009
ACTIONS THAT I SHOULD HAVE LEARNED
- A relationship is more important than a check
- Forgiveness is the #1 thing been most like Jesus
- The only good thing about us is Jesus
- Christ gathered unto Himself the OUTCASTED.
- Sin destroys sensitivity. Destroy your sense to the power of the conviction of God.
- We do not do well in excess.
- He is all that He should be, but none in excess. Not one thing dominant.
- We need to do well, without letting it hurt or life to excess
- Living in Excess: Limits You. Label’s You. Lead You. Loads You Down.
- Learn to divorce lessen your emotion from your life work.
- DARE TO LIVE WITH PURPOSE.
- AIM AT WHAT YOU BELIEVE IS THE PURPOSE OF GOD AND HEAD THAT WAY WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT
- WITHOUT PURPOSE YOU DRIFT
- SET YOUR SAIL IN A NOBLE DIRECTION.
- Security: equals TRUST
- DISCIPLINE: EQUALS NO FEAR
- The church is determined by its concern not by its size
- There will always be a time when you will put yourself in position where you will have to restrain yourself
- Don’t your senses control your actions?
- Self-control is the root of all VIRTRUE
- You have never become a man until, you have master the art of restrained.
- Restrained looks to a great appetite
- Key to Success. Others.
- Losing your grip on leadership: People seeing your nakedness.
- Your first start to quitting is to start being critical of others, and things.
A HAPPY BIRTHDAY ERIC AND BECKY
Monday, February 09, 2009
SANCTIFICATION MEANS CONCENTRATION ON GOD
God says that the believing man is justified: who are we, then, that we should say, ‘We believe, but we do not know whether we are justified?’ What God has joined together, let not man put asunder.”
– Horatius Bonar, The Everlasting Righteousness; or, How Shall a Man be Just with God? (Carlisle, Pa.: Banner of Truth, 1874/1993), 23
- Are we prepared for what that will cost? It will cost everything that is not of God in us.
- are we prepared to be caught up into the swing of this prayer of the apostle Paul's?
- Are we prepared to say - "Lord, make me as holy as You can make a sinner saved by grace"?
- Are we prepared to set ourselves apart for the Holy Spirit's ministrations in us?
Saturday, February 07, 2009
The Autobiography of Charles H. Spurgeon
I am occupied in my small way, as Mr. Great-heart was employed in Bunyan's day. I do not compare myself with that champion, but I am in the same line of business. I am engaged in personally-conducted tours to Heaven; and I have with me, at the present time, dear Old Father Honest: I am glad he is still alive and active. And there is Christiana, and there are her children. It is my business, as best I can, to kill dragons, and cut off giants' heads, and lead on the timid and trembling. I am often afraid of losing some of the weaklings. I have the heart-ache for them; but, by God's grace, and your kind and generous help in looking after one another, I hope we shall all travel safely to the river's edge. Oh, how many have I had to part with there! I have stood on the brink, and I have heard them singing in the midst of the stream, and I have almost seen the shining ones lead them up the hill, and through the gates, into the Celestial City.
FACEBOOK A FORM OF SMALL TALK
OKAY NOW ITS 9:04 P.M. I have being away for a while today.
So what is the purpose of FaceBook? I am really clueless. But I do know this, I enjoyed some of the comments made. I am not so sure I want everyone to read what I say. Wait a minute, what about this Blog? Oh! I have contol of this Blog.
Friday, February 06, 2009
EVANGELISM SHOULD NOT BE ANNOYING
1. Annoyance
We mistakenly take evangelism to be manipulation. But that's what the world says. In truth, we're not trying to impose our beliefs on anybody. Biblically, we can't impose our beliefs on anybody. Force and coercion cannot finally bring about the change that God demands. You can't expand Christianity by the sword. Evangelism is not some sort of intellectual imposition.
To believe that something is true and to share that with others is not coercion. We don't impose when we evangelize. We freely offer it to all and do not, cannot, force it on anybody
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