"Too many people convert to a church style or Christian culture rather than to Christ."
Really have you notices. People are more into church style rather than into Christ. Yet Christiantiy is Christ, not church.
My outline from Philippians 1:21 "For ME to live IS Christ, and to DIE is GAIN." You take out "Christ" and "Gain" you have "For me to live is to die." Living without Christ can lead to anger about living.
Church life, is of no value if we are not living to live for CHRIST.