THE KITCHEN SINK IS A PRETTY ROMANTIC PLACE
Nice clean, neat, just like Charity likes it.
C.J. Mahaney once said
something that really stuck with me, in reference to marital romance, “Before you touch her
body, touch her heart and mind.” What is he saying? He is
saying, you better not treat her like a guy! She is different. Therefore, if
you know your wife, if you understand your wife, then you have got to do and
say things that truly reach her heart. Its scriptural you know.
One of the ways husbands can do this is through service. I truly believe that some of the best romance in a marriage can happen at the kitchen sink. Instead of sitting around like a piece of furniture when you get home from work, husbands can go to the sink and help with the dishes or cleaning in the kitchen. As you are doing this you can talk about the day and serve by cleaning. Here you are entering into your wife’s world, listening, learning, and helping.
Of course she also likes the 20 second kiss in the kitchen too.
